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Response: I noticed you gave me a 1 for this swap without contacting me first, which I feel is very unfair to me and unfair to you. As you can see by my other ratings, I did not flake on this swap and this seems like it was just a situation of mail going missing.
I would like to resend you another card for an upcoming holiday (or Christmas if you prefer) so that we can change this rating. Please respond with your preference. I look forward to hearing from you soon.